I don’t even know where and how to start this entry. I believed I had closed up this chapter of my life. The public writing portion, not for any other reason than it felt like an echo chamber.
I can’t even begin to make sense of the hypocrisy of the last 10 days. I can tell you my anger has not subsided, my sadness has grown, and my patience has grown thinner.
I try to stay out of typing arguments but in the last day or so I couldn’t stop myself and as I pushed back on the person that has a different view than I do, I just simply want to understand why they believe their beliefs must be my beliefs or your beliefs.
So here is where I want the conversation to pick up; I am clearly Pro-Choice (choose what is best for you and your situation).
Questions that I need to have answered (not with theory or prayer or a verse or two), answered with real plans and outcomes.
- When shall we begin forcing all males to be sterilized until they are “ready & willing” to be responsible caretakers of those eggs they are able to fertilize?
- What is the standard length of time a male should spend in jail for failing to provide the female they have impregnated with pre-natal care, insurance, post-birth healthcare, and all other lifesaving necessities?
- Shall we begin collecting all male DNA at once?
- Create a nationwide database that tracks all men so as soon as those forced to carry a fetus will receive a very invasive and expensive pre-natal test can be run to identify the father?
- How will we force them to be responsible considering our current systems are completely insufficient?
- What will the penalty be for those donors that have impregnated both their spouse and they extra-marital partner? Not only are they breaking the law for responsibility of an unborn fetus they are breaking one of the 10 Commandments. Surely, that is a major moral failing that needs to be prayed about.
- How will we garnish the wages of the man to ensure the care of the woman being forced to carry the unborn and the unborn? An unborn child cannot be claimed on taxes as the government does not allow this.
- How will the insurance laws/rules be updated to show an unborn is no longer a pre-existing condition therefore requiring it to be covered by the male’s insurance?
- How will our Foster Care systems manage the influx of abused and neglected children when they are under paid and under staffed now?
- How will the department of education manage the influx of underserved children that will come from this change when current policies are pushing educators out of the field in droves?
Today, I sent off a few emails to local TV stations asking them to stop showing commercials about erectile dysfunction as it is now offensive considering if a woman is forced to complete a pregnancy against her will than men should not be able to continue to fertilize eggs when their body has decided it is no longer able. I encourage you to do the same.
I never thought I would say that I am grateful for the opportunity to have a choice some 30 years ago, but I am. My daughter’s will not have the same options at the rate things are going if they stay in the state we currently reside.
It is only a matter of time before they come for contraception, same-sex marriage, and more.
Voting matters, knowing voting records and platforms matter. May you never have to be in the position to note have a choice.